Event Rules

In brief:

  • Consent is key

  • Respect others

  • Only yes means yes

  • Staff word is law

  • If you’re not sure, ask!

Attitude 

Basically, Dont Be A Dick! You should treat our events no different to a formal theatre production or cabaret show. Just because we celebrate pleasure and debauchery does not mean we allow disrespect or carelessness. Please remember this is a night of appreciation of multiple artists and a safe place to explore; anyone thought to jeopardise that will be removed.

  • If you are disrespectful to other patrons or staff, you will be removed.

  • If you are seen taking photographs, you will be warned and potentially removed.

  • If you are intoxicated beyond composure, you will be removed.

  • If you are seen taking or in the possession of illegal drugs, you will be removed.

  • Our dungeon team, staff and volunteers are always happy to answer any questions.

​If you encounter any problems on the night, please speak to one of our team at the time so we can deal with it accordingly. It's hard for us to rectify any issues if they are sent to us after the event.

If you have any issues regarding a breach or a potential breach of consent, please contact one of the members of staff on the night.

  • NO SEX ON SITE - This extends to masturbation, penetration, sex acts and bodily fluids of any kind. This is due to licencing laws, so please respect the rule so we can keep putting on these events.

  • No touching without permission from the individual, this includes performers - from Dungeon play to dancing!

  • Only YES means YES. If someone says no, respect it and do not bother them again

  • Be respectful of both staff and patrons

  • Do not intrude on other’s scenes

  • Do not touch the performers

Please be aware that we have a zero-tolerance policy regarding harassment of any kind. We very much believe in the core values of fetish - Safe, Sane, and Consensual. 

We work alongside other kink and cabaret events across the UK and share our banning reports to protect all patrons.

Adult Entertainment

Photography

No Photography - The privacy and anonymity of our guests are a primary concern.

You can grab any of our professional event photographers for a photo of your outfit or with your friends while out and about in the venue, and we also have a dedicated photo room where patrons can take selfies.

Due to communication needs, we allow patrons to use their phones during the event. However, if found to be taking photos, you will be warned, asked to delete photos from your feed and potentially removed from the event. You will also be alerted if found to be posting “sneaky photos” on your social media. Please don’t do it; it is not worth it.

Our official photographers will be shooting guests throughout the night. We use a wristband system to give informed consent to being photographed. You will be asked if you would like a photography wristband at the door. Please be aware these photos will be used on the KEN website, social media and marketing. If you are not happy to potentially have your likeness used in this way, please do not take a photography wristband.

DUNGEON RULES - These rules are here for the safety and enjoyment of all of our guests.

  • The Dungeon Monitor’s word is Law. A DM can be determined by their Red armband

  • Only Yes means yes, no means NO

  • Do not interfere in other people’s scenes

  • Ensure you have a safeword when playing in the Dungeon, The House Safeword is “RED”

  • Clean up after yourself; wipes, spray, and tissues are provided

  • Be aware of the space around you, take care when using equipment that may impact others, and try not to loiter around other peoples’ scenes

  • No penetration or sex acts of any kind

  • No exchange of bodily fluids

  • No blood, fire, scat, or watersport play

  • No electrical play across the chest or above the neck

  • Phones and cameras are FORBIDDEN in the Dungeon

If you are seen to break any of these rules, you will be asked to leave the event. A copy of the Dungeon Rules is located around the Dungeon itself - “I didn’t know” is not an excuse and will not be accepted.

Don’t be shy, ask! Dungeon Monitors are available for any queries you may have regarding equipment, safety, or even learning new techniques. 

Dungeon

  • Minimum ALL BLACK: If your only option is a suit, it must be a full suit. T-shirts under blazers with trainers and blue jeans are not permitted. Put the effort in and accessorise!

  • Latex, black tie, Uniforms, Leather, PVC, Lace, and Lingerie are standard outfit themes.

  • Nudity is permitted, but we recommend some kind of footwear

  • NO STREETWEAR - This is an event for effort and decadence. If you wouldn’t wear it to a wedding or black tie dinner, you wouldn’t wear it here.

If you are not sure about your choice of wardrobe, please don’t hesitate to contact us at kinkyeroticnature@gmail.com

Changing Facilities: A cloakroom is available in the venue, so if you would rather unveil your outfit after arrival, please speak to our door staff.

If you do not follow the dress code, you will be refused entry at the door, you will be asked to leave, and you will not be offered a refund.

Dresscode